selfh.st

selfh.st is an independent publication created and curated by Ethan Sholly. […] selfh.st draws inspiration from a number of sources including reddit’s r/selfhosted subreddit, the Awesome-Selfhosted project on GitHub, and the #selfhosted/#homelab communities on Mastodon.

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awesome-selfhosted.net

This list is under the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License. Terms of the license are summarized here. The list of authors can be found in the AUTHORS file. Copyright © 2015-2024, the awesome-selfhosted community

Awesome selfhosted can not show you alternatives to a specific app. You always need to know what you are looking for. It is a static list

Selfhst is better with filtering and shows activity status of the projects. It is not an endless list