• gaael@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Nah, your genitalia doesn’t need a haircut. If he can’t handle your adult woman’s genital hair, he does not deserve to have sex with you.

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      3 months ago

      How about people just do what they feel comfortable doing with their own body hair?

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      3 months ago

      Are you the sex police? Gonna arrest people for trying to please their partners?

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        3 months ago

        People can only like what I like. Any deviations will be prosecuted to the first extent of my law.

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        3 months ago

        Not to be confused with The Sexy Police:

        “You’re under arrest! Now check out these buns!”

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      You’ll notice he’s not the one saying this, she is.

      Some people just feel more attractive when they are cleaned up down there.

      And before you go off about how it’s the patriarchy, etc, I’m one of those people and I’m a dude.

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      “Nah, your fingernails don’t need a trim. If she can’t handle your adult man’s untrimmed fingernails inside her, she does not deserve to have sex with you.”

      Hair that’s long and overgrown can cause problems just like long fingernails can cause problems. Keeping them trimmed so they don’t is just being considerate of your partner.

    • dontwakethetrees (she/her)@lemmy.world
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      If you don’t want to trim, then don’t.

      I feel more attractive and confident in my body when my body hair is well groomed. Doesn’t need to be clear cut but also I don’t want whoever’s going down on me to deal with a jungle.

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      3 months ago

      You don’t need to go down to the hardwood, but you should still trim your shit.

      Unless that’s what you’re into, then you do you.

    • Irishred88@lemmy.world
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      The healthiest way to go about it is to just have a conversation with your partner if its a concern at all. For some, one’s answer could be a deal breaker, and for others it’s not a problem. Communication is key here.

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      I’m just gonna throw out there that I’m a fan of hair, but it ain’t mine to judge or control. People need to chill out a bit lol

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        Even if you’re a fan of hair, I’m sure the concept of “you need a haircut” is valid to you too, I don’t usually mind either way but once had a FWB who did zero trimming and it was… Not ideal.

        Almost everyone does a bit of hedge trimming even if they keep the bush