and I can’t really describe how. Their is more like a they with an r on the end.

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    I guess you’re a native speaker. As a foreigner, I can only nod my head. We know.

    They’re/their/there are completely different words. They mean different things and they’re pronounced ever so slightly different, and you’ll get you hand chopped off by a centimeter ruler if you do it wrong.

    “There” is clearly longer than “their”.

    “There” is one tone. “Their” is rising.

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    I hadn’t thought about it before, but on reflection, I do too. And I wouldn’t be surprised if most people do.

    Exaggerated a bit for effect, it would be more or less:

    There = thehr

    Their = thayr

    They’re = thay-r

    “There” is just simple and straightforward with a pure short ‘e’ sound and no particular stresses.

    “Their” has more of a long ‘a’ than a short ‘e’ sound, and a bit of stress on the vowel sound.

    “They’re” also has more of a long ‘a’ sound and it’s pronounced just a fraction longer than in “their”, and there’s a very slight pause between the vowel sound and the ‘r’.

    Huh… learn something new every day.

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      11 months ago

      I do it the exact same way, and was about to type that out myself but you said it much better. It’s funny the nuance to language that exists.

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    This is why I never understood the confusion with which spelling to use. Just say it in your head.

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    I wonder if it’s conditioned by word stress. “There” is usually the object of a phrase (and therefore stressed), while “their” usually modifies a following noun that gets the stress instead.

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      Would that be true if I’m just saying the word in my head though? I think there’s a case for that since I’m probably thinking of the word in the context of a sentence (any sentence) when I say it in my head.

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          I think I still stress there’s because it’s got that missing i. I go lighter on the theirs.

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    10 months ago

    I had a friend from australia who pronounced every vowel of a word distinctly…. so consecutive vowels like ei or ea or ou, somehow she’d enunciate them distinctly.

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    It’s ther (or thehr, if that makes it easier to hear in your head) theyr and theyur

    Seriously. There is a shorter word when pronounced, their has that sharp I/y sound, but cuts off right after the r. They’re is pronounced with the they-are slurred like all contractions should be.

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    As a native english speaking, i tried to write the slight difference in the way i say them both (I didn’t realise i said them differently until today) but I couldn’t quite put it in writing so i deleted my comment 🤣

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    The most bizarre one for me is pronouncing the plural of woman as “wimmin.” Can’t explain it, can’t work around it. It is what it is.

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    This is probably a regional thing. In Alberta I don’t think I have ever heard someone say these differently.

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      I don’t know, it could be? Another person that isn’t a native speaker of English said that they could hear it, but that might just be for the US.

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        I think I could hear it (am native English speaker from the UK), but it’s definitely not how I speak. Both words sound exactly the same when I pronounce them.