Mehul Prajapati, an international student in Canada, made a video about using a food bank at school. The vitriol he received was intense

  • Funderpants @lemmy.ca
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    It’s been my experience that international students are more at risk of insecurity due to outdated regulations on the amount of money they must have, increasing costs all around, and restrictions on their ability to work and for their spouse to work.

    Combine that with social media culture and communication challenges and we get situations like this, I work with a number of students from India and they speak English well, but differently from a long term Canadian. Often, the english is more direct in word choice and more… bombastic or sales oriented. Combine that with social media presence and you are bound to get culture clash.

    So instead of using a more Canadian culturally appropriate phrase, like “here is where to turn when in need” or “this helps me afford rent”, many will just be less cautious and might say “here is how I save hundreds of bucks” or “here is how I get free food”.

    That it turns out this guy was struggling like many others, and trying to help people like him is honestly no surprise to me.

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      This is true. As an immigrant myself, I have struggled with expressing my thoughts for the longest time. Different cultures and different ways of learning English. Trying to translate my thoughts from my own language to English often comes out either rude, or just wrong. I’ve learned to take moments before expressing my thoughts and then also explain just in case. I also throw in a disclaimer when I meet new people, especially at work. I’m getting better. It gets better with time. I feel bad for him. People on the internet are just brutal.

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      I’m an immigrant from Australia and I remember having to change my word choices even though Canada and Australia are nearly culturally identical. It must be a lot more work coming from less culturally similar places.

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        This is interesting to me. Do you have any examples of how you would word something differently in Australia compared to Canada?

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          I worked with a guy fresh from Australia….

          Sooo, racism is a bigger deal here than in Australia, often words that have racist histories have been just accepted as slang in Australia ina type of “reclaim” thing. He wasn’t racist per se, but he did need a lot of education on the history of some slang and why it isn’t used in Canada. He was ALWAYS good about it, didn’t mean any harm but just didn’t know.

          Also, when looking for flip flops, walking into walmart asking the employee where the “male thongs” are WAs a mildly embarrassing venture for him.

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        No, he wasn’t working for TD or making $100,000. He was previously a summer intern and was not even working for them when some guy on the internet decided he was, and used one of those glass floor type websites to just make up a salary for him.

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          TD seemed happy to throw him under the bus, though.

          As outrage grew, the same user posted a photo of an apparent reply from TD. “Thank you for bringing the video to our attention,” it said. “The alleged actions and messages captured in the video do not align with our TD values and culture of care. I can confirm that the individual named in the video no longer works at TD.”

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      So instead of using a more Canadian culturally appropriate phrase, like “here is where to turn when in need” or “this helps me afford rent”, many will just be less cautious and might say “here is how I save hundreds of bucks” or “here is how I get free food”.

      “Bigots HATE this one weird trick!”