SbisasCostlyTurnover

Hey.

I’m Dan. A 36 year old father of two who doesn’t have nearly as much time as he needs to do half the things he wishes he had the time to do.

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  • SbisasCostlyTurnover@feddit.ukOPtoDads@feddit.ukAnd so it begins.
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    3 months ago

    I don’t think mine is totally ready right now, but I remember with my elder that there was a pretty big window between when she was ready and when she was willing to sit on the thing.

    So the plan here is to let him get used to it being around the home, let him sit on it and interact with it and then when he’s ready to start dropping his trousers… hopefully the transition will be a bit quicker than with my daughter.




  • I’ve spent my time continuing through, and then finishing my first run on the new Suzerain DLC.

    Had a good time with it but I think it’s maybe not as… fully thought out as the games OG campaign was. That said, I’m definitely going back to it at some point because I made some frankly awful decisions and it all went wrong very quickly.

    I was a bit worried about how well the Steamdeck would handle it but I actually found playing with the Decks touchpads to be preferable to the games gamepad mode.







  • Won’t lie. Having a second was never something I expected to happen. I’m not sure either of us were ready for it and it’s absolutely gutted our sense of self, our relationship and our overall level of happiness.

    That said we both absolutely love our two kids. We wouldn’t be without them and they make our lives so much more…full. It’s amazing to watch them play together, and to watch my eldest show genuine care for another human, and to watch my youngest learn and mimic his big sister.

    It’s not been easy. I think we’d both admit that we’ve struggled with the transition from 1 to 2 in ways we never did form 0 to 1, and our youngest has been significantly more challenging than our eldest was, but even with that, he’s an absolute light in my world.




  • Yeah we’ve got some of this, although perhaps not as frustratingly bad as you guys.

    She’s very picky, but we’ve gotten to the point that we just cook what the other three of us eat and if she doesn’t want it then so be it.

    I should emphasize that we generally only eat what we know she likes, but for some reason she’ll decide on a random wednesday that now she doesn’t like peas and …yeah okay.

    Banana before bed I guess.





  • It’s happening. My eldest is six. And I’ve noticed that when it comes to being a stubborn git, she’s definitely more her Mum than she is me.

    She’ll refuse to do the most benign things. Getting dressed and brushing her teeth is an absolute battle. Trying to get her to eat anything that’s not a ketchup covered fish finger? An Impossibility. She’s her Mum. Classic ‘cutting off her nose to spite her face’ sort of stuff.

    Ay ay ay.