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If you wanna get mathematical about it, check this out
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secretary_problem
Date a bunch for “a while”, and then keep the one that’s better than all the previous ones. Odds of you finding the best (or even good) out of the gate are slim. Not to mention that you also probably need to grow as a person, and once you do, will attract higher quality partners and refuse to settle for weak ones.
There is malware that only captures traffic when visiting banking websites.