I wonder that also, how normal is it? I’m familiar of course with people kind of burning out on each other in a marriage, and the sex goes out the window and they either get divorced or settle into a different kind of partnership I guess. But I was actually kind of shocked to hear these women talk the way they did. It was so hostile and dismissive. It was ugly.
I’m just guessing, but one of the guys does not seem like someone who does not have sex. He makes a lot of money at his job and I suspect he may be seeing escorts or have something on the side. Like why would he just accept one blowjob a year? That’s absurd. He does well at his job, pays for everything. I feel like he gets some on the side and is discreet about it. Again, I’m just guessing there.
None of them have any idea I go to parlors and pay for sex with asian women of various ages. So maybe it’s the same for him.
The other guy seems totally spent. Just burned out. I really can’t imagine he’ll go on like that once their kid graduates and moves out. I feel like he will snap eventually.
I went to two on July 5th. The first one in the late morning. Parking lot was full but I went in anyway to check it out. There is one gal in particular who does everything I like, so figured I’d give it a shot as I really wanted to see her. Four girls working and a one hour wait, so I left.
Went to one on the other side of town. I had been wanting to check it out anyway, as they have two new girls working there now. It was mellow and relaxed, I had a great time. I asked her if it was busy on the 4th, she said “Not at all. Not busy today either”.
So kind of a coin toss I guess. Some places busy, others not so much.