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That’s some pretty good motivation!
That’s some pretty good motivation!
Really it’s just time. You’ve thought in that voice for years- it’s a force of habit. It’ll take time to change it, but you’re doing everything you should and one day - before you know it - your inner monologue will sound like you.
Please someone get me out of this state before it descends into literal chaos
As someone diagnosed with dissociation I completely agree.
People acting like dissociation doesn’t exist like maybe this woman actually does dissociate, you don’t know better than her.
I have this problem but with my blood
If you’re really sure about getting rid of your beard, laser hair removal will do the trick. It takes many sessions, but as long as your hair isn’t blonde or lighter it’ll get rid of it. Electrolysis can take care of any white hairs you have. Once you’re finished you’ll never have to think about shaving again
dysphoria is hell fr
Autogynephilia is an outdated, thoroughly debunked term btw. Find some reading below:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blanchard's_transsexualism_typology
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20582803/
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15532739.2010.514223
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0038026120934690
https://juliaserano.medium.com/making-sense-of-autogynephilia-debates-73d9051e88d3
https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/11/13/five-lies-terfs-tell-about-the-trans-community-debunked/
https://medium.com/the-establishment/why-are-trans-women-penalized-for-body-fantasies-everyone-has-44d238d55431
https://genderanalysis.net/2016/04/alice-dreger-autogynephilia-and-the-misrepresentation-of-trans-sexualities-book-review-galileos-middle-finger/
https://www.crossdreamers.com/2020/05/the-autogynephilia-theory-debunked-by.html
https://archive.is/fw208
It’s because they’re transphobic Watson. The whole god damned island hates trans people
Do you have any resources for someone that was just diagnosed?
Overpopulation is a myth
It’s like when they post photos of empty store shelves in America and say this is what it’s like with socialism
That might be what the guidelines say, but it’s not the experience of any trans British person is or has been and not what the people in charge of the British government or healthcare say. Here’s a short video explaining in detail how the British government fails trans people
If you have insurance now, it might cover bottom surgery. This site has a pretty comprehensive list, but if it’s not listed there it’s worth googling “<your insurance> trans healthcare” and seeing what comes up. You’ll likely need two letters of support in order to receive coverage: one from your hrt provider and one from a mental health provider.
Though not completely up to date, this site can help you find GRS surgeons that take insurance by area
Friendly reminder the guardian is run by terfs
https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/17dpbf7/the_guardianobservers_transphobia_is_now_their/
I have a feeling I’m going to end up being an arch girl xD
What distro did you end up on?
good god i hope not
I need both